Week three

I am happy to report that Cody is doing very well at camp. The first two weeks were okay with a few issues but now he's a champ rock climber, happy soccer player and master at arts and crafts. They have gone to the beach were he rode a boogie board for the first time and loved it...Daddy wants to take him surfing already. They've gone to Knott's Berry Farm and this last week they went to the Science and Discovery Center. He is now having a lot of fun and getting really good reports from the counselors that his attitude has become much more positive and that he's progressing very well. I am also happy to report that things at home are running smoother as well. We are experiencing much less fits, he's doing chores, listening better, getting along with people better, and being much more independent. We've established new house rules that he's attending to very well after enforcing them very consistently. We are ecstatic with the results we are seeing. We love our little guy and always have, but now things around the house are much more peaceful and positive.

Day three

Day three of Summer Camp Quest, and thus far we are doing well. He was very scared the first day but was soon put at ease by the camp counselors. He had a good report that day. They receive points during the day that at the end of the week they get to use towards a treat from their store. The second day was the first rock wall climb day and Cody was having nothing to do with it no matter what I said or how I said it. I told his counselor that he was very apprehensive to do the rock wall. But turns out he did extremely well (he got bonus points!) and now has said that it is awesome! I was so relieved to hear that he did well and really liked it since they do the rock wall once a week. They also participate in physical ed. through a karate instructor. Another thing that Cody has really enjoyed. So, thus far, things are going in the right direction. We, as parents are also involved in the point system. He has the opportunity to earn 20 points a day at home by working towards his "at home goals". His at home goals are things such as doing his chores, and doing things independently like getting dressed, and starting his own shower water, etc...
We are so glad this is going to be a positive environment for him this summer to learn and have fun.

Cody had his first visit to the hospital (not counting the ER visits). He had to have an EKG to check his QT interval to make sure it isn't prolonged. We should hear back today to see what his results are. We are expecting everything to be fine and hopefully start some new meds to control the hyperactivity. Cody was very nervous but he did a great job. Poor kid has been through so much lately.
We also got the results of his Psycho Ed Analysis and all results point to a focus problem which we pretty much already knew. He did really well visually but auditory he struggled. Overall she said that Cody is a very bright kid but is going to need help learning. I've committed myself to working with him almost every day of the week this summer to keep him at grade level.
We were also referred to an Auditory Center which I am going to get an appointment as soon as his camp ends in August. They will be able to tell us if he's hearing things/sounds differently and how we can help him learn.

another med...

Well, just a short note to say that we went to the Dr. yesterday for Cody's annual physical/well check and spent the whole time discussing his meds. Cody now needs to have an EKG to see if he has a long QT wave length...or something with the QT and seeing if he has some heart problems before adding new meds. We may be adding a new med to tame the hyperactivity that his meds (Strattera) now is not controlling. We also discussed turrets disorder and how it's a motion disorder. We spent about 30-45min. going over what meds control what symptoms. It kind of made my head spin because there are so many different symptoms lumped under ADD disorder. I am grateful that I have Daniel to talk calm me down when I leave the Dr.'s office. He processing things quicker than I do. I need some time to let all the info sink in and then I am ready to start doing more research on the new info.
Daniel and I are also going to Cody's psychologist tomorrow to discuss the results of his Psycho Educational Analysis. I will admit I am a bit overwhelmed and am hoping we get good news that he's on track and should be prepared for the second grade. I will update after we have our parents meeting tomorrow.

We made it!!

Celebrate good times...COME ON!!

Oh what a relief...1st grade is done! Second grade here we come!!

After a short break of course!

Here is Cody's awesome 1st grade teacher Mrs. Deegan.

I felt a deep need to make a big deal of Cody's accomplishment since he hates school and struggled so hard. Cody finally stopped playing with the kids he was having trouble with. The last few days of school Cody behaved very well and his teacher said it was because one specific boy in the class that bothers Cody wasn't there. I am hoping that Cody will have a new group of kids in his second grade class to see if his behavior improves.

 I spent most of the last day of school with Cody at his class while they played in their mini gym and had a pizza party for lunch.

Cody had a spirit assembly at his school today. The kids get awards if they've accomplished something in the past few months. Cody received an award for his Perseverance. He has worked pretty hard this year and we are very proud of him. All but one reading test is done for this school year. Next we are having Cody get a Psycho Educational Evaluation. These are subject specific testing to address behavior health problems and to see exactly where he's at in his academics so we know what to work on this summer and be prepared for come next school year. We were also informed that his principal will be retiring this year. We really loved our school principal and she has helped Cody out so much. We can only hope that the next one will be as flexible and loving towards Cody. We are anxious to find out who Cody's second grade teacher will be. I have been doing my research and hope I don't annoy his teacher too much. Daniel and I have continued helping out in Cody's class and we really enjoy it. The kids are very loving and are always excited when you show up to help. It's been a great experience this year. A lot has happened. We are very grateful for everyone who has supported us!

Cody getting his award from the principal

Back to school

I've spent two mornings at Cody's school this week helping out in the classroom. It has been so much fun but a huge eye opener to what this next generation could be like. We are so lucky to have such a wonderful teacher this year. She does an amazing job and believe me, she has her hands full!! What really surprised me, and I guess it really shouldn't but there are some kids in Cody's class that have real issues and it doesn't seem like the parents help them. I am in no place to judge others but I just know how important early intervention is. Some of these kids have real emotional problems. It's sad and makes you want to give them a big hug and help them in any way you can. It's a bit overwhelming. One of my jobs was to help one child with his spelling test. He totally shut down and kept saying that he didn't study and doesn't know his sounds. When I heard that it made me a bit angry towards his parents. I know that parents these days have a lot of their shoulders but if you choose to have children you need to help them be successful. I know what it is like to have a special needs child and how much support and studying he needs to do.
Any how, I will definitely be back to help out and am glad that I have the time to do so. My plea...parents, please help your children be successful!